Wednesday, 23 January 2013

Who is the real BOSS? I have had enough! (Part 2)

Today is the ALL OUT between me, my present boss and that WOMAN that i have mentioned before. Things doesn't go as smooth as i presume. My boss get to know what she had done from the other staff who had come over to assist few days back.

 

Well ofcourse, he is angered by the way that WOMAN does things. Phone call were made, both quarreled. That WOMAN angered. By coincident or mean, she demand/order/instruct me to clean up those pile of brush that is rotting on her trolly. First and foremost, i have only arrived to this place to work for a week. I don't usually use the salon's brush since i have a full set of mine laying on my trolly. I am clueless at the beginning and tell her off that it's not my brush. She brush it off and says that it doesn't matter whose brush is that, but i need to clean it. Now I'm really CLUELESS??????!!!!!!! 


Well you see, whenever she demand/order/instruct you to do something, she will tone her voice down and speak to you.(psychology manner)  When you argue about it, she will always point one single point. " Did i use a bossing tone to ask you to do thing?" If your answer is NO, you just have no chance to argue. I must admit that this WOMAN is really good with sarcastic manner and psychology. Well ofcourse i did not fall for her trick. I  blatantly brush her off by saying ~alriiiiiiiiiight (not even looking at her)

It took awhile for me to perform that duty because I was busy doing my assigned duty before that WOMAN start giving me a fine ticket like an officer like the other day. Well, to be frank I was actually trying her patient and sees if she's going to yell at me or what so ever so i that i can F**K her off by saying i have plenty of duty to be done while she is doing nothing. She did not went rage, patiently waiting for me to clean it and not allowing the others to clean it.(clearly she is picking on me again) I clean it randomly and place it back at the place where she place it at the first place.(not her trolly)

 

Salon system walk-in customer is based by turn. There is another part-timer stylist who came over to work. Most of the walk-in was given to the part-timers. I remain my cool. I was asked by the client to attend to her hair-do at 6pm(via phone few days back) That WOMAN literally liquify the appointment that is written on my appointment slot and put is as an walk-in and gave the to the part-timer(doesn't it sound SUCK to you?) You would have gone berserk if you were in my position. I remained cool and phoned my boss and told him what is going on. 

 

I'm going to cut short for this. 

 

Basically, another massive quarrel happens on the phone between my boss and that WOMAN. Undoubtedly, she was able to put it in a way that she is not aware of the misplacing appointment of mine that just happen right after the brush cleaning incident. Clearly, she is using the sarcastic gentle manner explaining the walk-in's as well. I remained cool as always. The rest of the conversation between my boss and her is unknown as i am busy with my duty when the time is close to off duty.

The moment i punched time out, she approached me and request to talk about it (with her fake manner AGAIN). It's my off-duty hour and I'm not interested to talk too her, i told her off and said we'll talk about ti tomorrow. The moment i told her off, i can sense her unsettled mood. She pointed out am i not happy working over there(insisting to talk her way through before i knock off). I shot  her off by saying " I'm not happy with YOU!"  (bla bla bla bla bla bla...... another long story) I walk off without even settling the score with her. The next thing she said, I run this place, you are working over here, if you have problem with me or you don't like me, you go back to your Orchard. (what a mean way) I just took off without a word and texted my boss about that matter... 

Boss urged me to settle the score with her nicely. I am really unhappy with the way that WOMAN put things together but.....i do not like to drag things any further, i went back to the salon and get things done.

 

I am surprised.....




That WOMAN told me this.


" I am the BOSS, you have no reason to question me whether i come in late or go back early or anything. I am the one hiring you"(which i dont think so since my E.P is not under her ). Mortified..... I was not told that she is the BOSS. Although my present boss is taking over the salon soon, but not for the time being. Which mean the moment my boss asked me to work there, i am all under her control when it comes to work. Stressed, infuriated but lost of word. Morale went down hill or even gone..... the feeling is like i have been sold to the other company at the first place. My mouth suddenly went heavy. I couldn't say anything. I couldn't do anything. Stunned..... It takes a few second for me to regain back my sense.


Remorsed.....


I do not have the power to do anything. Nor anyone could help.....



Monday, 21 January 2013

EX-boss abusing authority Part 1 (MY ARSE YOU F**KING BIATCH)

My boss.... persuaded me to try and work at this new branch located at Siglap. Well ofcourse this request wasn't just accepted by persuade. Given the monthly transportation fees and sales assurance until i make more it. We are talking about 5 digit numbers people. 

So here we go. I given up my several numbered client back at Orchard which i have made for the past 7 month included my previous client that have been following me. Digging from ZERO again from this Siglap branch. I have told myself  "do not be afraid to step out from your comfort zone" and this is why I'm taking this risky task. From what i have been told, boss sees potential in me and wants me to take a step ahead and lead the existing people on the Siglap branch.

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I have lost my patient unfortunately.

This WOMAN who is the ex-boss, comes in to work late, pushing all the small fry job to me, instructing me to sell this and that thing to client, insisting to force client to do this and that, likes to boss people around, does not clean up her own meal after eat, best parts, she will ask you to prepare TEA for her(am i your fucking butler Bitch?)

I begin to go berserk when the boss texted me and said i did not mention (which is did) to that WOMAN back at that Siglap place that i will be going back to the Orchard because i have got appointment with a client at 10.30am. Boss went furious and said i act as if i don't give a damn about it.(it doesn't sound very nice to hear it from your boss when you did nothing wrong at the first place)

The moment i finished the client, i rushed back to the Siglap branch without even eating.(bad for me)


The first thing i was told when i arrived is that i have been FINED. Reason? I did not WASH the fucking pantry basin. From what i know, there is no food left on the water running hole. Overall is clean. So, what does that means? It's very clearly that she is trying to pick a fight with me. My duty is to take care the pantry, basin, towel, coffee maker, fridge, rubbish. She maybe right when she said i forgot to throw the rubbish which is did not throw it yesterday because i was working over time and the next best thing i know is that i better get my hot ass out soon because my traveling towards home is freaking time consuming. Because of rushing off, yes, i did forget about this little half full unattended rubbish. 

 

Let me repeat it again if i may. My duty is to take care of pantry, basin, towel, coffee maker, fridge, rubbish. The other 3 technician is covering the rest of the duty. But.... what is that WOMAN'S duty? As per-mentioned, she is the ex-boss. And currently she is no longer the boss. What make's her neglect her part of duty?


This WOMAN, demands us to tidy up the whole station daily as if we are having 15 man  power. Siglap branch is way bigger than the Orchard branch and it needs 10 man power to supervise the whole floor while there is only FOUR FUCKING PEOPLE  running from A-Z at Siglap excluded that WOMAN. Does it sound absurd to you people? Does it sound like as if we are Lucy who represents the Maid Enterprise?  

I marched towards her, pointing out why am I fined and insisted to cancel it. We quarreled, i gave her my nasty sharp look, and piercing words(no vulgar). She asked me to watch my mouth and know my place before speaking (which i already know, she ain't no my boss nor manager or supervisor or anybody). She cancel out the fine as she has no reason to back hold the fine on me.

 

What's the next thing? I wonder? Am going to speak to my primary boss and request for an immediate transfer out from that dungeon. Will it work out as i planned? I don't know.... 

 

 

 


Sunday, 6 January 2013

The secret that guys should know about their girlfriend

Ladies and gentlemen out there. Well, i mean this column here today is specially dedicated to guys. If you are girl and you are reading this now, correct me if I'm wrong. I am going list down 10 things girls that will never ever tell you guys. I call this SUPER IMAGINATION.



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1 : THOUGHTS COUNT  - Women on dates won't necessarily penalise thriftiness. But they will crucify a lack of imagination. If you are thinking of taking her to watch a movie and dinner on your first date... Good luck buddy.


2 : SHE'S GROOMING YOU - You many not know it, but you are being continually auditioned for sex. Don't get it? For example, for US weekly sex survey, nearly 60% of women admitted to changing their minds about going to bed with a guy after promising him that they would. The reason they gave for turning him down : It's about power and control - and which he didn't display any.


3 : THE NAME OF DEAD  She fantasises about murdering everyman who has called her "babe". Don't be one of them. <(>o<)>


4 : THREE'S THE MAGIC NUMBER  -  She will never tell you to do something more than three times. If you still haven't taken out the rubbish/tidy up your laundry/ stopped cracking your knuckles/averted your gaze from the hot waitress with low cut top, you are now on her ominously quiet s**t list and will be passive-aggressively tortured at an unspecified time, or for a period.


5 : WOMEN'S INTUITION - She knows which of your female colleagues you fancy, even if she has never met them. She can detect your change of tone when you talk about them. That's why she goes nuts when you work late. You deadlines; she sees a 50 Cent video.


6 : THE PRYING GAME  -  If the ask you who your favorite footballer is, she's not taking an interest in your love of sports. She wants to read your email and is trying to crack your password! Better listen up buddy.


7 :  SHE PREFERS HER FAMILY  -  She wants to spend all the holidays and weekends with her family - not yours - and can't understands why you can't feel the same.


8 :  BLOOMING HELL  -  She will pretend to like it when you send her flowers to apologize for a mistake. But, deep down, she regards this act by you as a pretty despicable man. 


9 :  USE A CALENDAR  -  There's a short but significant list of things that she says doesn't matter - but seriously does. Buying an engagement ring and wanting have children are usually up there, but going out for her birthday is ubiquitous. Miss it and you'll be sent to sex Guantanamo. Trust me! 


10 : THE "F" WORD  The worst thing a woman can ever say is 'fine'. Forget it's English definition. In woman-ese, it means: "You're brainless fool! I'm not even going to try and explain what's wrong!" In Italian, fine translates into "THE END".


                                                                                          FUCK YEAH!

Saturday, 5 January 2013

My fuck up New Year

May I have your attention please?  
May I have your attention please? 
Will, The Real Virus please stand up?  
I repeat will, The Real Virus please stand up?
And the The Real Virus DID stand up and strike me ON the 31st December 2012 !!!
Fuck that man....
Thanks to that I've been laying on bed for three days since the New Year Eve. 
That seriously ain't fun. Fever, nausea, body ache, flu..... I hate you!!!! 




Sunday, 30 December 2012

WHAT'S STOPPING YOU EXERCISING?

Some sexy bods for the motivational purposes

Well, we know exercise is good for us, from firming muscle tone to boosting mental health., so we should want to do it, right? Yes, well, it would also be logical if we never went to bed wearing the makeup and stopped popping 2 packs of cigarette. How's that working out for you? Interesting isn't it? Everyone who ever avoids exercises has a reason for doing so. Stands to reason that if you could work your way around the excuse, you and exercise could skip off into the sunset together; you, too, could be one of those people who says they genuinely love it, apparently, they are really not lying.

So, what's the missing ingredient???

This is you if  you had a mindset going to the gym brings you out in a sweat, and not in a good way. It's boring, painful and embarrassing.

Being scared is not an excuse. Throwing yourself off a crane with a bungee cord around your ankle is scary. Coming face to face with an angry bear is scary. Doing a half an hour workout isn't scary. If you want a good looking body, you will need to work out for it. And yes, it require major changes in your life. You will never ever regret doing it. The reluctant lasts a short time, the benefits lasts forever.


WHAT YOU NEED TO DO..... Find yourself a fitness buddy!!!



This is you if you feel you work so hard, carving out an hour or whatever to put your body through exercise is just not fair.

When people say they dont have time to work out, i say, 'Crap, i bet you found the time to watch your favorite TV drama or read a magazine.


WHAT YOU NEED TO DO.....Even if you can't do much, do something!
Set priorities, if you want to exercise, you can, it's just about making the time. Waking up an hour early for a brisk walk or so on.

This is you if you work out, but where are the results?

 It makes me laugh, occasionally cry, when i see people at the park/gym working out on static bikes for 30 minutes with a book on their hands. They probably burned about the same amount of calories but the point is that simply doing it is not enough. You are probably not working hard enough.


WHAT YOU NEED TO DO.....Make it tough enough. 
Also, look at other factors such as your diets, stress level, sleeping patterns and other factors. These few area might be holding you back, so make sure you address all of these too - and don't give up! 


This is you if you really really want to be the kind of person who works out, but after few weeks it falls apart and. oh, what's the point?

 If you miss a training session , or have a diet slip-up, don't go on guilt trip and throw in the towel. Recognize how far you have come, never let the glitches throw you off the prize.


WHAT YOU NEED TO DO.....Pace yourself. You should feel excited because you are doing something good that will have results. Remember your goals! It's harder to exercise than to stick with it once you've got into the rhythm of it.



Have a good day exercising, Cheers!  

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Saturday, 29 December 2012

Find Your New SEXY

Ladies and gentlemen, do you still remember what's the charming part of your partner in the first place? When you have been together for awhile, it's so easy to become familiar with your partner that you forget what you find sexy about them. Today I'm gonna bring you to the flash back and do some side kick on your lovey dovey life. 
 

1 . DON'T TAKE YOURSELF TO SERIOUS  - It's a turn-off being with someone who is uptight all the time. It takes confidence to poke fun at oneself and confidence is definitely sexy.

2. WRITE A SEXY NOTE  -  Every few weeks pick one or two things your partner did or say that you find it sexy, and tell him/her in a short love note. When you do this often,  you will feel constantly turned on by your partner and he/her will feel even sexier.


3. DRESS UP OCCASIONALLY  - Don't underestimate this advise! Making an effort to look good for your partner will make both of you feel special. If it makes you feel hot, your partner will see you ini the same light, trust me. (^_^)

4. DEEP KISS EVERYDAY  - It strengthen your bonds and leaves you on a sexy high. A passionate smooch can heat things up, and not necessarily in sexual way. You are sharing a special moment with the person you love so much.


5. BE THANKFUL FOR THE "SMALL STUFF"  - This will remind you of the little things about your partner that you might have over looked. If your partner makes an effort to cook once in awhile when you know it's not his/her thing, appreciate the gesture.

6. DO INTIMATE THINGS TOGETHER  - They don't have to be sex-related. Pick activities that put you both in touch with your sensuality and bring out your affectionate, something like cuddling on the couch, taking bath together - anything that makes you feel close.
 



Thursday, 27 December 2012

MY FREAKING HANDS


Effing shit man... My hand is officially chapping again damn it!!! It soo dry and damaged that it splits open on the bending area. Oh my Effing god... that is so effing hurts. I know by writing it down over won't help but i just feeel like shouting it out (unfortunately not in my room). Because of the pain, i have been giving the emo look during the last 3 hour on my working period. I am so effing sorry to those who i have attended during that period. Man... this really feels like when girl having menstrual pain.. You are so effing emo that you feel like punching someone that's right infront of you. Sigh ~ ~ ~ 

Currently listening to this copacabana to ease my tension for abit...  >,<