Thursday, 4 July 2013

Super Passionate Session? Anyone?


That's right homie. You are curious. You clicked in here. You are reading. You are anticipating.... And you are still reading?! Oh my god.... you must be dead serious! (laughs)


Alright, let's cut to the chase... this is my first time to talk about some HAWT stuff for boys and girl, for men and women, for ladies and gentlemen. It's about S*X... not SIX ok! Alright, you feel me, you got it, so keep reading.



Sexy passionate sex! It's what we all hope for(atleast) : for that richer, connected rhythm that makes you smile every time you think about it - but stops. . . . . . . .  and i mean FULL STOPS. Your bed session just die off after couple of years.(maybe) So, how does this happened? Why you lose the loving feeling?


There are few reason that you man not be having as much passionate session as you deserve. The first? The rise of mainstream porn. It's becoming the model of what people think sex is supposed to be.Well of course, if porn depicted loving couples having egalitarian sex in which both parties are equally concerned with pleasing the other. But, well, it's doesn't.The majority of porn depicts women as being more concerned with pleasing the men than pleasing themselves.(for goodness sake) Women become convinced that they should emulate porn stars(well,not everyone i suppose), so they try to do all these wild, man-pleasing moves rather than paying attention to their own satisfaction and taking time to find out what they like. Indeed that a little pretzel play now and then can be fun, but most women don't really get off on the acrobatics. Having wild monkey sex essentially turns the act into theater, which hinders your chance to truly connect.


Porn isn't the only reason couples these days aren't super passionate on bed - self satisfaction can also be a factor. Couples get so comfortable that they take their sex life for granted and stop putting in the effort to romance each other. They ended up having going-through-the-motion sex, and finally, some women  are simply afraid to ask their partner for more romantic intimacy.


Wild sex is great, but feeling connected on a deep emotional level is even better. It feels more real, and when I care about a girl, I want to treat her affectionately to show her that I'm serious about her. So, that guys-only-want-porny-sex falsehood? Officially busted.


Another reason you should add some more emotional sex to your bedroom rotation, its the a..... biological urge i call it. People crave for attention and passion, and that's when you pretend you don't, you are actually shutting down a large part of yourself. Devaluing romantic session allow you to justify being in a relationship with someone who's not loving towards you and that's never right to begin with.


So, how do you do it without feeling lame? Cracked my history and presented here for you homie.


Having romantic session doesn't entails scattering rose petals all over your sheets before you do it,(although, but hey, if that works for you, go all out). Rather, truly sensual sexy-time happens mutually, as results of feeling connected to each other - focus on your bond outside the bedroom first. A little simple things can do a wonder : have breakfast together, call or text each other on your lunch time just to say hi, and send a message(optional) "I can't wait to see you tonight" in the afternoon. Building up your connection throughout the days makes you feel closer when you are in the bed later. Reminding each other of how good you are together will make both of you crave for more closeness. Then once you're in the bedroom, focus on each other....(I guess i don't have to be specific with the later details) You may start with some slow tease by removing each others clothes, not just your own. I feel that it's a HWAT way to get in the moment - feeling of the fabric slides down your skin heightens your sense of anticipation. Kiss like you mean it, again, this might sound duh, but the truth is, smooching is often the first thing to go when couples get into sexual rut.(Laughs)


Inspired yet?













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