Abnormality

It's year 2013, we have safely pass through the myth of the world - 2012

Mother earth is looking stable in our eyes.

Never know until when the earth core starts to crack again.

I'm just feeling weird.

Oh, never mind.

Let's just say, if you know you are short of breath from time to time.

Sour headache cracking your nerve recently.

And suddenly feels like your heart's been stabbed by a knife ( it hurts alot )

What's the first thing will you think of?

Starts to write your will?
 
Starts contacting your doc?

Then again, you have no idea will you still able to watch the sunrises across your forehead the next morning.

I am hesitating.

Should I call the ONE and talk to her before anything else?

And what next?

I don't know.

DECODES HIS FACEBOOK STATUS ( girls wanna know )

Here come's the DECODES system.
I know i shouldn't be posting this, but YES, I wanna share this out. TeeHeee....

We've seen numerous types of post via Facebook from all over the world. But, do you happen to know the codes behind their post? Hehehe... Here's some amusing feeds.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Man Who Posts Lots Of "Deep" Thoughts.

 

Demonstrate value. Engage Physically. Nurture Independence. Inspire hope.
 

 

Translation : He obviously takes himself pretty seriously, but he's also thoughtful and reliable. He likes to think things through before he acts, which means he'll be extra sensitive to your needs. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Sarcastic Guys Who Vents His Pet Peeves

 

Would like to thank the a**hole who took my parking spot this morning..again. 
 

Translation : Men who use Facebook to constantly vent and looking for some reassurance and attention. His needs for attention may hint at underlying insecurities.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Random Observation Dude

 

It's cheaper to buy a round-trip ticket than a one-way ticket. 
#thingsthatmakenosense#
  

Translation :  His arbitrary but clever comments suggest he is outgoing and loves the spotlight. it also probably means he'll work hard to entertain you.

 

TMI Guys Who Gives Play-by-Plays Of His Day

 

 Just ordered a breakfast burrito. Skipped the cheese this morning but asked for extra onions.

Translation : This guy is open with his thoughts and feelings(to a fault), but at least you'll never have to guess what's on his mind. The catch? He'll expect you to be just as transparent.

 

 

 

 

High flyer or Low rider?

Here's something interesting to talk about. 

I am currently picturing an office(it can be any working environment) where the vibe is positive, everyone is productive and works well with one another. Just unfortunately it ain't happening at place. I've come to figure out how to work my EQ or emotional quotient. EQ is known as strengths, weaknesses and personality, and understanding how these influence the interaction with other, your judgement and decisions. Did you know that outstanding Superior,Manager,Director/Boss possess high work EQ?

My mission is to understand myself and my working style. Managing my emotions when I'm under stress, and working with others(except that WOMAN). Nobody wants the "insensitive" and "inconsiderate" word to be printed right under the neck.(that WOMAN fired one of my technician during the CNY EVE) When the work EQ is low. there may be resentment and frustration. Staff might avoid you and not support you.(this is exactly what is happening with my place) They may even gossip about you behind your back.(which we did) At the same time, you will have trouble understanding their behaviour and often get annoyed with them.(which she did)
(Above column is described to that WOMAN)

I may not be someone at my current place now, but I'm going to plant my root after seeing how that WOMAN handle things. I want to create a positive working environment where my team feels safe. An environment where they don't have to be afraid of being unfairly criticized or judged. An environment that way they can be more creative and handle stressful situations more easily. When they are motivated to perform, the relationship within the team will be based on mutual trust and understanding, and willingness to help one another.(which that WOMAN wasn't able to do it)


[ -PeaCe- ] 

R EMI NI SC EN CE

I've been looking at a photograph of the time we had,

We weren't chilling out every time, every hour, every day,

Looking back on the day, I appreciate the time we spent,

The joy, the ride, the laughter, the cam and the pinky hook.

Ever since i left, I kinda wish I had more time to be around,

Life hasn't been the same since then,

It's nice to smile when i get your text message, 


But I'd rather have you here with me, right next to me,


So I look for you on a bright shining star,

Everywhere I look, there you are,

 

The ONE in the yellow dress, you took my breath away,

 

And now I look to the sky for a better day,

Till the day we meet again,


In my heart is where I keeping YOU.


Memories give me the strength I need to proceed,


Strength I need to believe.

Let's meet again!

How to decodes Alpha Male (must read)

 

Am i flirting? Just being nice? or not interested at all? Wanna know why?

Inconveniently, guys don't walk around with the signs hanging off their necks declaring their relationship status, so it's impossible to see who's the fair game. Once, for example, I spent hours chatting to a girl of my dreams at a bar. As she placed her her hands on mine, I thought, "This is it. She's about to ask for my number." But, no, she squeezed my hand instead, said it was nice to meet me, then disappeared into the night, saying she had to get home to her boyfriend.

So, how do you pick out the single men from the "TAKEN ONES"?

Here's some clue for ya'people when it comes to spot your dream man - how to work out if he's single, in a relationship, or just up for fun.

Single Man Move #1
WHERE HE"S LOOKING...
Target found ==> Single men are usually more likely to look around the room for women. There's a sense of availability and openness about single men. They want to find the girl of their dream.
NON-NEGOTIABLE TARGET ==> Unavailable men may be more reserved. They are more likely focused on chatting with their own group of friend, rather than analyzing other people in the room.



Single Man Move #2 
WHERE IS HIS CHEST FACING...
Target found ==> Whatever man aims his chest towards in he room is the most meaningful thing to him - whether it's the keg, you, or your friends, you don't have to argue who he's interested in - look at where his chest is pointing.
NON-NEGOTIABLE TARGET ==>Attached men will stand with their arms crossed. He's putting something between himself and the single girl to show she's not welcomed.


Single Man Move #3
HOW HE SMILES...
Target found ==> If he has a closed mouth with the cornes turning up into grin, rest assured he likes you but doesn't want to reveal too much so soon. He's probably shy so he won't put his emotion on show right away.
NON-NEGOTIABLE TARGET ==> If he half-smiles, there's a good chance he just wants a fling. A sneer-like grin is the indication he's not being sincere. It's a split-face gesture; each side of his face is telling a different story. 


Single Man Move #4
HOW HE MOVES HIS SHOULDER...
Target found ==> If his shoulder are slightly rounded and facing towards you when you chat, he feels as though he wants to protect you. He's being the protector and wants to take care of you.
NON-NEGOTIABLE TARGET ==> When you ask if he's in a relationship, watch his shoulder. If he shrugs one shoulder, it's the almost-apologetic gesture of someone who's lying to you. It's like saying,"Sorry, but you asked". He may also start scratching his face


 Single Man Move #5
WHERE HE IS IN THE ROOM...
Target found ==> Single men position themselves by the bar as this offers opportunities to engage single women in a chat. He can offer you a drink and, at the same time, watch people on the dance floor to asses who he likes.
NON-NEGOTIABLE TARGET ==> If he's standing with his back to the room, he's not interested in what's happening around him. If a man stands with his back to the action, chances are, he is in a happy relationship. 


Single Man Move #6 
WHAT HE DOES WHEN YOU MAKE EYE CONTACT...
Target found ==> If he cocks his head to one side, it's a subtle come-hither signal. He's inviting you to join him, suggesting that he's not only single but wants to get to know you better
NON-NEGOTIABLE TARGET ==> It couldn't be simpler when it comes to eye contact. If he catches your eye and glazes over, he's not interested and his mind is elsewhere - probably back home with his girlfriend. 



  P/s : this applies only when your are at party/lounge/bar 

Why we resign?!

I was just chatting with my mum about my work over at Singapore, the fucked up place that i just transferred. Based on my mum experience working from nobody to somebody before she threw her resignation letter, it's all about those fucked up domination status in the company. Frankly speaking, my mum was the lead Manager for food and beverage company before that. 


WHY WOULD GOOD EMPLOYEES LEAVE?

When you lose the good people, look no further, often it's all because of the immediate Supervisors/Manager/Director/CEO. More than any other single reason, they are the reason stay and thrive in an organization. And they are the reason why the good employee leave, taking account on their knowledge, experience and contacts. Often, straight to the competition

People leave the Supervisors/Manager/Director/CEO, not the companies. So much of money has been thrown at the challenge of keeping good employee - in the form of better pay, better motivation, better training - when, in the end, turnover is mostly the superior issue.

Beyond a point, an employee's primary need has less to do with money(although some may regards with it), and more to do with how they been treated and how valued they feels. Much of this depends on how the immediate Supervisors/Manager/Director/CEO handle things.

Although my mum is leading Manager, handling the paperwork, dealing with troubleshoot, ordering stocks and so on, she has been poured with many many false shits from the superior. Disregarding on how well she deal with customer, turnover is always the issue when it comes to it. Very much same with my current position at the fucked up place. There is always a "dog" that keeps barking from behind at the end of the month. 

Some way some how, I really hope the  good Supervisors/Manager/Director/CEO will take note on their own action to try and preserve the morale of the employee. 

The Expedition 12/2/13

I have been looking forward to be back to Klang for few reason, one of the reason is this! The so called last minute plan(given by one of the friend) that I suggested. I wouldn't say it's a bad move entirely. Most people would probably suggest in-town gathering, but i would go for the "out from town expedition" (laugh)....  Working at city has already occupied my entire day back at Singapore, coming back to my spot is definitely a no no for me to be at city again. So, the plan is to hit down 60km(i guess) drive down south of Malaysia to the beach called Bagan Lalang. Bagan Lalang is a beach front destination nearby Sungai Pelek town in Sepang area. That place now is more likely pronounced as Sepang Gold coast when they deployed it as one of the growing holiday getaway.

For the little understanding, this deserted sandy coast are the area to get away from the crowds and enjoy slow-mo pleasure. Pretty much enjoying the kite flying, beach ball battle, jogging and some amazing sundowns as the day ends.  

We start the journey at 08.00 in the morning (erm, it's more like i start my journey to fetch our artist and director first, hahaha)

First, we have our "Director".... who is late by 15minutes!!!!!!  o(>O<)

Then we add our "Artist" on the back seatz... who is late by 20mins!!!!  \(>,<)/

 

 

Mission accomplished for fetching these two midget(laugh)

 

On the way to the designated place....  Vrrooom vrooom Vroooooom

 

 Damn, i love my hair colour.

The journey wasn't that confusing thanks to the "Navigator system" we had in our back seatz..(know what i mean) if you go back to the column who was sitting behind of me. Not to forget, I even have a BOMBASTICK woofer right beside my ear that makes the whole journey RAWrrrrrrrrrrrr.

 

Our Artist is so happy, and . . . .

The weather is looking good too!

 We have a pair of flying chicken wings back there!!!

Instead of homemade picnic, we have to get it from the nearby petrol station.

Finally we arrived!

 

But I face a problem with this "little" blocking my way. I was thinking to hit her real hard....

WITH MY CAR, LOL 

 A quickie lunch before we worship the sun.Lol

Beautiful sky/ Wonderful weather

  You just can't resist the old school style JUMP AND SOAR on the air! Yay!

I'm having problem blowing my bubbly out from the bottle. *Confuse face*

Here We go, venturing towards the softer ground when the tide is lower during the afternoon.

And We are STUCK!!!

We literally have to hold on each other hand to provide support, strange enough our "director" still manage to balance herself up and snap us.(bravo *applause*) Notice the ball that was supposed to be held on my hand was snug inside me! Thanks to the "director"!

Not to miss the classic "paint your toe" photograph.

More of the Three Stooges ~ ~ ~

 

 

And some twin shot

Beautiful sky with two beautiful soul marched up.

Why do i get hooligan penalty from the "director"????

And Finally...

Tired but still manage to pull the last energy for the BYE BYE snap(someone messed up my hair) .

We'll be back for Journey #002

AND...

See You Again!!